Here are some books and websites I have found useful.

Sex and sexuality:

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

A Taste of Honey by Habeeb Akande

The Ethical Slut by Hardy & Easton

The New Topping Book by Hardy & Easton

The New Bottoming Book by Hardy & Easton

The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin

The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin https://www.wheelofconsent.org/wheel

The Three Minute Game https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_KCzpNBNbVM

ACE by Angela Chen

Whole-Body Sex, Somatic Sex and the Lost Language of the Erotic Body by Melissa Walker

The Leather Couch by Stefani Goerlich

LGBTQIA+:

The Transgender Teen by Stephanie Brill & Lisa Kenney

Erotically Queer Edited by Silva Neves & Dominic Davies

LGBTQ Clients in Therapy by Kort

Race:

How To Be An Antiracist by Ibram X.Kendi

Why I am No Longer Talking About Race by Reni Eddo-Lodge

Mens and Group Work:

Under Saturns Shadow by James Hollis

Iron John by Robert Bly

Sitting in The Fire by Arnold Mindell

Spirituality:

Eastern Body Western Mind by Judith

Radical Wholeness by Philip Shepherd

Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach

Body (Somatic work):

Waking the Tiger by Peter Levine

Conscious Moving by Christine Caldwell

Getting Our Bodies Back by Christine Caldwell

Dreamwork:

Awakening Through Dreams by Nigel Hamilton

Dreambody by Arnold Mindell

Consciousness:

The Map of Consciousness Explained by Dr David R Hawkins

Communication:

Conflict and Energy by Jason Digges

Non-Violent Communication by Marshall Rosenburg

Neurodiversity:

Scattered Minds by Gabor Maté